TaLKING ABOUT Pornography

We can all play a role in the care, safety and protection of children.

The Internet and more recently portable electronic devices, has transformed the way pornography is accessed and how pornography accesses children and young people. Whilst pornography is not new, the nature and accessibility of pornography had changed considerably. The way we approach this topic, therefore, needs to be different. In the absence of adequate education in the home, school and wider community, pornography is the primary and in many cases the only education children and young people receive about relationships and sexuality.

We strive to reduce and prevent harm through proactive and preventative education, supporting and inspiring parents, carers, educators and other professionals to talk with children, young people and vulnerable adults about pornography.

eSafeKids provides Reducing The Harm: Talking About Pornography workshops throughout metropolitan and regional Australia and internationally. These workshops can be delivered face-to-face at your location or online as a webinar.  All workshops are delivered by eSafeKids Founder, Kayelene Kerr.

Parent / Carer - Primary School

Talking About Children and Pornography: From Scared To Prepared

The Internet and portable electronic devices has transformed the way pornography is accessed and how pornography accesses children. Children are growing up in a world where it’s impossible to avoid sexualised media and pornography. Whilst pornography is not new, the nature and accessibility of pornography has changed considerably. Children with access to the Internet on any device - at home, at a friend’s place, at school or in any of our community spaces are at risk of exposure. It’s not a matter of ‘if’ a child will see pornography but ‘when’ and the when is getting younger and younger. In Australia, the age of first exposure is being reported as between 8 and 10 years of age. 

It's never too early to begin proactive and protective conversation and education. This parent/carer workshop has been developed to support parents/carers talk, in age and developmentally appropriate ways, with their child about pornography (private photos and videos). You will leave this workshop with research and evidence-based up-to-date information, conversation starters, practical strategies and resource recommendations. 

Topics Covered

• Overview of pornography in the digital age 

• Children's access and exposure to pornography in the digital age

• The effect of pornography on the developing body, brain and behaviour

• Strategies and language to use when talking with a primary school aged child

• Creating a safe and supportive space for conversation and education

• Specific education and conversation to support children

• What to do if your child is exposed to pornography

• Resource recommendations and ongoing support

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Parent / Carer - Secondary School

Talking About Young People and Pornography

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Whilst pornography is not new, the nature and accessibility of pornography has changed considerably. A significant portion of pornography that young people view, accidentally or intentionally, contains violent themes and behaviours. Research has found high levels of aggression in the most popular pornography videos. Studies also suggest frequent viewing of pornography may; reinforce harmful gender stereotypes, contribute to young people forming unhealthy and sexist views of women and sex, contribute to condoning violence against women, sexually coercive behaviours by young men, normalisation of violence and potentially drive sexual violence. There may also be broader social impacts in relation to body image, mental health, reduced academic performance and erectile dysfunction. 

It's never too early, or late,  to begin proactive and protective conversation and education. This parent/carer workshop has been developed to support parents/carers talk with young people about pornography. You will leave this workshop with research and evidence-based up-to-date information, conversation starters, practical strategies and resource recommendations. 

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Topics Covered

• Overview of pornography in the digital age 

• Young people's access and exposure to pornography in the digital age

• The effect of pornography on the developing body, brain and behaviour

• Pornography's link to sexual aggression and violence, sexism and objectification, risky sexual behaviours and poor mental health and wellbeing

• Strategies and language to use when talking with young people

• Creating a safe and supportive space for conversation and education

• Specific education and conversation to support young people

• Resource recommendations and ongoing support

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Workshop Duration 2 hours

Workshop Duration 2 hours

Young People and porn ... 

93% of boys and 61% of girls have seen online porn.

1 in 4 young people first saw porn before the age of 12.

76% of access to one of the most popular porn sites is via a mobile phone. 

71% of children/young people were not seeking out pornography when they first saw it.